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Daily Spiritual connection helps us to Conquer the Trials and Test

3/21/2022

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Numbers 23:19,  GOD does not lie.....in any situation.
Proverbs 3:5-7 In all thy ways acknowledge GOD and I will show you the best path to take.

Luke 5:4-9, God will tell you exactly what to do, you must obey to get the right results


Below is the steps you can do to find guidance to living your best life.

1- Read a daily devotional and have quiet time in the morning before going to work or before the kids get up. It helps you to place positive and peaceful thoughts in the mind. This allows you to attract other pleasant events throughout the day. Even when hateful things happen, you don't 'go off'  as fast.

    A. When your mind is at peace....sensible answers come to solve your problems.

2- Pray about your circumstances, then stop worrying, wandering and doubting. Have faith that things will workout, maybe not how you planned, but just how it was meant to be.                                      
     A. God plan is always better than yours....... 


Make a list of what is bothering you, Then Ask God for wisdom and pray,
​ In my current circumstances, GOD show me the 'truth', what is the wise thing for me to do! 
and Give me the strength to do it! Guide me to the right people and resources to help me do it.

3-  If you have problems paying your bills, be proactive about talking to creditors. Call them and
and talk to them before they start calling and chasing you. Dishonesty leads to trouble. They will work with you at an affordable repayment plan. They want money, something is better than nothing.

4-  You must visualize where you want to be, stop focusing on current circumstances and blame! It will keep you stuck. Because you continue to ask 'why', and 'how come'?
      A. Write down what you want to buy when you have money and who you want to give 'gifts' to and then write down how it would make you feel and how they would feel.  Then pray over the list, release it from your mind, do something else and  watch over time as it begins to show up in your life at your 
level, as if it was magic.

5-   Don't be ashamed to ask for help! Most people have not because they ask not!
       A. You google for information not wisdom. For wisdom ask GOD to direct you to who to ask for help.
            'Godly directions not intentions get you to your desired destination, perfectly'.

6-   Before you go to bed take 5 minutes and write down what happen during the day that made you laugh, something new you may have learned that day or what happened that you were grateful about.
      A. You will be amazed at how helpful people become around you. Life opens up when U do.

7-  Before you go to sleep, ask GOD to help forgive you and your enemies, those that have done hateful things to you during the day  (even, if you don't mean it). It helps you to calm down before you face them 'fools' again.  Also, when done at night it will help you to sleep and not wake up tired, due to fighting in your mind while trying to sleep.
       A. Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling.

8-    Stop talking to negative people, stop repeating negative events in your head or gossiping after 8 pm. You will be amazed how well your sleep improves and your outlook changes. Listen to positive thinking music, people, watch a good tv show or movie. This will keep you out of a lot of unnecessary 'drama' situations in your life.

9-    Eating the right amount of fruit and vegetables or drinking a cup of  100% vegetable juice twice a day keeps you calm in the storm during the day and improves sleep at night.

10-  Exercise whether walking, running or jumping......if done for 30 minutes a day for 5 days a week, help you to think better thoughts, more energy to do fun things, helps 'sex hormones' to work better, lowers your rate to be quickly irritated by sounds and people.
        A.  Affirmation ....I give myself permission to love and respect myself, more


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Marriage from 'broken to better'... Building the Nest without Thorns

3/13/2022

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A successful marriage is one where you are  supported, working together as a team, safe to express yourself, respected for who you are and most of all treated as priority. A place  where you have reasons to smile most days. The best part of your day is going home to your like-minded partner, who is your companion to grow with as a friend and lover, in a playful and peaceful environment.

She Wants
To be loved and listened to

1- 
She wants to wake up and know we both are on the same team and want what's best for the other one no matter what, dependable and reliable.  Yet, have the ability to laugh at life, when we get it wrong. It shows you care about her feeling loved, cherished and honored.

2- She wants to trust him  and be accepted for who she is(let her be who she is). She wants loyalty, honesty and openness from him. She wants to always know she is the 'apple' of his eye, that she looks good and matter to him.

3- She wants him to talk to her, respecting her opinion and understand her needs. She wants him to get in the habit of checking in with her and schedule time alone for undisturbed heart-to-heart talks. She truly values friendship and companionship with her partner(the ability to give meaningful feedback to her questions).

4- 
 She wants stability and security of enough money to live on comfortably. 

5- She wants him to be a good father. Committed to spending time with her and the kids, doing fun activities.

6- She wants him to be a leader. The ability to discuss and agree upon goals for the family with her. She wants him to take the initiative to find solutions to family problems and achieve goals.

7- She wants him to look his best and be physically fit, she values his ability to make sensitive, passionate, sensual love to her on a spontaneous basis and be handy and helpful around the house. She desires to have fantasy discussions about fun things to do with her mate.

8- She wants him strong. Courage to deal with difficulty, pain or danger without backing away. Set limits on the bad treatment he accepts from others. Yet, she does not accept 'abuse' of any kind.

9- She wants him to talk over his thoughts before he make decisions that benefit the family aspirations, celebrate achievements.

10- She wants him to take responsibility for his actions. Don't blame others when you did wrong. She does not want a soft guy who is timid, because she expects you to get the job done from the boardroom to the bedroom. Yet, be nice and kind to her and others.



He Needs                        
To be admired and supported 

1- He needs a builder that genuinely cares about him, trustworthy team partner and a good looking wife. Loyalty, cooperation and respect is what he values most.

2- He needs friendship that entails honest loving conversations to know she is supportive, loyal and understands him. Women, the person you chose to marry deserves your respect, and the respect of others, so don't gossip, ridicule or complain about your partner at parties or family gatherings. Support in public and correct in private.

3- He needs her to be his playmate, someone he enjoys hanging out with. Engage in recreational activities that both can enjoy together.

4- He needs sexual fulfillment with his partner. Keep yourself in shape, welcome spontaneity. Be open to new ideas and enjoyable exploration.

5- He needs peace and quiet to think over and discuss what's best for the family. Men will not tolerate a game-playing ‘bossy drama queen’ or 'drop and plop' nastiness for very long. She respects his thoughts and do not fight or tear him down on everything she disagrees with.


6- He needs a confident, smart and secure, women that have there own friends and interests.

7- He needs a genuine person that can laugh at herself and who is uplifting, kind, supportive and loving. She supports his endeavors and don't put obstacles in his way. He needs a prayer partner to help him stay connected with GOD for strength and guidance to make the best decisions for the family prayer list requests.

8- He needs her to believe in him, acknowledge his attempts and achievements and tell him how proud she is of him win or lose, don’t make him feel inadequate. A  classmate in learning of GOD's word and career/community insights that will help him navigate toward success.

9- He needs to be accepted and trusted for who he is and for what he is driving to accomplish. Being 'equally yoked' ..ability to see eye to eye on important issues and priorities, helps him feel confident that everyone on the team is rowing in the same direction.


10- He needs most of all encouragement and nurturing, from a loving spouse when times are tough. She needs to believe in her spouse, and show it.

Couples
  • Do not go to bed angry.....really it does work
  • When you wake up in the morning ....take a few minutes and tell yourself;
  • I love and respect myself, Life is good to me, What I need and want is coming to me
.......you have to love U before you can give it away to another, daily

  • Before leaving the house, either wink, wave, hold hands, kiss or look each other in the eye, then say, 'My desire is to be love, support, and encouragement for you, today.'
  • Eat meals at the kitchen table without discussing 'family conflicts/negative issues'.
  • The more you walk and talk together, the more sex happens naturally
  • Awesome families are playful......Should be fun, not all work, no play.

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From broken-hearted to better..... Finding the 'Right'  Partner

3/10/2022

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Have you ever been divorced, abused, rejected by someone you believed loved you?
Typically, we date or marry a familiar type of person in the community, that reflects our unfinished business(hurts, habits, hangups).
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Lesson Learned: Everything you are attracted to, you may not be compatible with (just because it look good, doesn't mean you can live good with it). Try a new type of person that is likeminded  (convictions/standards) and headed in same direction toward your goals.

Take a minute, a deep breath, a vacation and say to yourself 'I love and approve of myself '......because in relationships you have to love you, first. Always know, No matter where you are, somebody is always attracted to you irregardless, of your look, money, size, color or disability, that approves of  U.


To use the lyrics from Berry Gordy and Jackie Wilson song, 'To be loved'

Someone to care,
Someone to share,
Lonely hours,
And please
don't make decisions in moments of despair



Things that will not make you feel loved in a relationship


  1. A person who is controlling (Bossy Bully), negative, know it all, cheater, disrespectful, jealous, selfish, abusive, dishonest (liar), manipulative, destructive, hot-headed, foolish, loud mouth, taker who is not nice to you or others and that is in it for your money. The person has completely different goals, values and priorities than you, yes, being equally yoked (compatible) does matter.

Now pray, GOD, I want to meet someone new that is best  for me

Someone to kiss,
Someone to miss,
When you're away
To hear from each day.


10 Things that will make you feel loved in a relationship


  • A person who is genuine that cares about  and believes in you, no strings attached
  • A person who is confident and a builder
  • A person who is positive and finds you interesting
  • A person who is smart and wise
  • A person who listens to your gripes and needs, then bring healing to your heart
  • A person who is dependable and reliable to fight life battles along side of you
  • A person who appreciates you spending time and doing things with and for them
  • A person who is supportive and understanding 
  • A person who is loving and respectful
  • But most of all they honest and peaceful, you can always trust what they say.

The key to finding a mate is finding someone that is a lifetime helpmate and friend, that celebrates U not tolerate you.

Wait for the person who pursues you and accept your past, support your present, and encourages you to achieve your dreams in the future.
 
Make sure you both want the same goals, Before you get your heart involved

And most of all, wait for the person who will make you a priority, because that's  where you belong and how you deserve to be treated.....

As months past and things begin to chill, keep it real by making sure, it's GOD's will
and not written in the sand, to be washed away, before it hardens like clay

Then everyday play and pray, to enjoy the day


But to be truly, truly, truly loved
Is more than all of these things!


At the end of the day, both partners want the same blissful feelin

To be loved, to be loved
Oh, what a feeling,
To be loved



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